Scenes From a Backyard Wedding in Ruidoso Downs, New Mexico

We’ve been busy prepping our lawn and gardens for a wedding. Our daughter, Rebecca, married the love of her life, Dave Higgins, last weekend here in Ruidoso Downs. I had to post some photos, most of which are courtesy of family and our outstanding professional photographer and friend, Jessica Inman. See links to photo credits and local services at the end.

The happy couple settles in by the river. Photo courtesy of Jessica Inman Photography.
native grass for wedding setting
About a week before the event, we had plenty of rain, which greened up the native grasses.
outdoor wedding tent
The tent was situated near our xeric garden. We had to rent the tent from Albuquerque, about 3 hours away.
backyard wedding DIY repurpose
Repurposing saves money! In the background is our potting bench-turned-bar. And an old door served as a Polaroid guest book frame.
succulent centerpieces
Rebecca wanted succulents as part of her theme and color scheme. We used existing plants as centerpieces.
succulent centerpiece grandmother keepsakes
Here’s a closeup (courtesy of Jessica Inman) of the wooden base Dave brought and one of our succulents potted in a hollowed out fence post. The bride added keepsakes from her grandmothers to the bouquet.
succulent wedding favor
Guests received a succulent favor. We repotted these rosettes from the Succulent Source in California. Rebecca made the tags. Photo courtesy of Kyra Ducan, Small Town Chick.
cake with succulents
Live succulents decorated the beautiful (and delicious) cake from Laura Shirley at Le Chantilly in Albuquerque. Photo courtesy of Kyra Duncan.
succulent and topper groom cake Le Chantilly
And for a bit of whimsy — the groom’s cake, also from Le Chantilly. Photo courtesy of Kyra Duncan.
ruidoso downs outdoor wedding
The weather in Ruidoso Downs was perfect the day of the wedding. Photo courtesy of Kyra Duncan.
bridal aisle two fathers grass
Both dads walked Rebecca down the grass-lined aisle. What a fun day of modern family unity. Photo courtesy of Shelby Von Norton.
succulents hair outdoor wedding
The ceremony, officiated by Randy Logan. Hair by Robin Shackelford and flowers by Lou McLeod. Photo courtesy of Jessica Inman.
succulent bouteniere
The perfect succulent boutenniere from Lou Mcleod of Ruidoso.
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The first kiss as a married couple. Tuxedos from Mr. Tux in Albuquerque, Rebecca’s makeup by Jazmine, Blue Lotus Day Spa and Yoga in Ruidoso. Photo courtesy of Kyra Duncan.
Take a seat escort card sign from barnwood
Time for the reception. Dave and Tim made the escort card sign from old ranch barnwood. Photo courtesy of Kyra Duncan.
native grass meadow
Signs made of barnwood and wooden stakes pointed to the ceremony. And we left some areas unmowed, like this small meadow near an old irrigation pump.
wedding Ruidoso downs
The morning after. Everybody had a fun time, thanks to great food from Can’t Stop Smokin BBQ and entertainment from DJ Pete.

Many thanks to all family and friends who helped us out, especially Jenny Ruiz, Kathy and Dave Toupal and Jeri Baker.

The following Ruidoso and Albuquerque businesses helped make the Higgins Ruidoso Downs wedding possible:

Flowers by Lou Mcleod of Alto. Lou also is a top wedding event planner for Ruidoso.

Hair by Robin Shackelford from  Bella Vita Salon in Ruidoso.

Bride’s makeup by Jazmine at Blue Lotus Day Spa and Yoga in Ruidoso.

Outstanding entertainment and ceremony sound from DJ Pete (Pete Davis) of Ruidoso.

Catering by Can’t Stop Smokin BBQ of Ruidoso.

Cake from Laura Shirley, owner of Le Chantilly Fine Pastries and Wedding Cakes in Albuquerque.

Local beer kegs from Rio Grande Grill and Tap Room in Ruidoso.

Tent, tables and chairs from AA Tents and Events in Albuquerque.

Professional photography by Jessica Inman Photography.

Additional photos courtesy of my sister-in-law, Kyra Duncan and her daughter Shelby Von Norton, both of Tatum, N.M.

Garden Rest Stops

Gardening can be hard work, and there’s no shame in taking a break now and then. Besides, why pour plenty of time and love into your garden if you aren’t spending time in it, whether reading, visiting with friends and family or simply enjoying the view.

garden bench
These homeowners knew how to make the most of their garden, with plenty of seating areas; the sign on the bench sums it up.

Yesterday, I visited some gorgeous private gardens in the Atlanta area where the owners get it; I kept spotting cozy and elegant sitting areas. We’re adding a few spots with chairs and benches around our property, so maybe I was more alert to these features of the gardens I toured. Or maybe the areas for relaxation were just too good to pass up.

And although Atlanta’s landscape differs markedly from ours in the Southwest, we all can take a few ideas from these pleasant garden rest stops. Enjoy the pictorial tour!

garden bistro table and chairs
It was raining, so this umbrella held special appeal. But the red chairs also drew me in.
garden bench atlanta
A garden bench, a pergola, and a view that’s likely as pretty sitting on the bench as looking toward it!
blue chairs and bistro table
Here’s another bistro-type seating area, with a plant on the table, of course!
chaise lounge garden
A spot of blue right in the middle of an open area, where you’re likely to get a perfect mix of sun and shade.
garden chair birdhouse
We saw lots of unique bird houses, including this themed adirondack chair. So cute!
garden furniture with plants
A touch of whimsy or a gardener who can’t stop growing? I loved this “covered” table with chairs.
garden furniture atlanta
Want some privacy to read a book? Tuck yourself away under some tall trees.
iron garden chairs
It looked a little damp in this sitting area, but the chairs are as much garden art as they are a place to rest your feet.
garden bench
When just a bench will do. This one flows naturally into the landscape and hardscape.
So, maybe even fairies need a place to rest? This garden had fairy-sized seating areas in containers.
So, maybe even fairies need a place to rest? This garden had fairy-sized seating areas in containers.
outdoor patio fireplace
A formal sitting and dining area near the house doubles as a place to rest and warm up, and a place to entertain.
metal furniture native landscape
It’s also nice to have an informal area to warm up and enjoy the view of a native landscape.
dog window garden
Of course, there are always the front steps. Or the carpet inside if you’re a dog wanting to keep an eye on its owner!

Savoring Succulents Without Busting the Budget

New gardeners and homeowners or office dwellers with little time can enjoy live plantings with easy-care succulents and air plants. And who knows? Once bitten with the bug, it’s so easy to move on to flowers, herbs or vegetables.

cacti in thrift store container
Three cacti in a Haeger Pottery container. Tim found the container in a local thrift shop; the plants were about $2 each.

There are so many attractive succulents and cacti to choose among, and their colors vary. Many also flower. But they typically come in tiny plastic containers or expensive arrangements. We’ve spent some of our winter “down time” playing with these low-water lovers. Tim has propagated new plants from cuttings, but they eventually need attractive containers as well.

cacti succulents houseplants
Because you just can’t have enough cacti and succulents… This photo shows a few inexpensive, handmade containers.

We’ve bought some containers and repurposed others. In fact, I might not have enough for patio herbs this spring; I think they’ve been swiped. But we’ve also had a lot of fun making and finding containers. If you have a creative streak, you can have a lot of fun with cacti, succulents and air plants because the plants are so low maintenance.

air plants
I love the look of these tillandsias, or air plants. No soil needed!

Here are a few inexpensive container ideas:

Hypertufa. The trend in making hypertufa pots is popular for a reason. They’re relatively inexpensive to make, and although they can look like stone or concrete, the containers are much lighter. Hypertufa is a mix of Portland cement, sphagnum peat moss and perlite. There are lots of recipes online, and we often save plastic containers or other objects to use as molds.

inexpensive succulent containers
Three hypertufa pots we made, along with a “planter” made from an old fence post.

Thrift stores. It’s much more fun to browse a thrift store when you have an idea or purpose in mind. We purchase inexpensive baskets for hypertufa molds (the baskets can’t really be used again) and containers for air plants or cacti. It’s fun to find rustic or unusual items in particular.

wine glass air plant
I had fun with my thrift store find. I put decorative glass beads around a small plastic cylinder stuffed with sphagnum moss. It took less than 20 minutes.
thrift store containers cacti
This one’s our favorite. We bought what appears to be a candleholder and then found the perfect spiny cactus for its “seat.”

Reuse and repurpose. You can buy empty air plant terrariums fairly inexpensively online, or come up with found objects. I’ve used old coffeemaker pots, small mason jars and other objects from our kitchen or closets. Tim has used an old jelly jar layered with sand and moss to create a tiny succulent planter. And fence posts, drift wood, rocks, shells, pinecones and other natural items found in your yard or on walks can work well as planters or decorative items. Air plants can even be glued to wood or other items; you’ll just have to spritz them with water a few times a week instead of soaking the “roots.”

sedum in old wood
Found objects also add interest outdoors. An old post with barbed wire intact sets off this sedum.
airplant terrarium
These terrariums are inexpensive. We like to add decorative rocks and objects from our yard or garden.

Although some succulents need fairly regular watering, the biggest mistake we’ve seen people make with cacti and succulents is overwatering. That takes only a little practice to get right for each plants. The other helpful tip from Tim is the growing medium.

You might think that cacti in particular grow in sand, especially if you’re ever been to Arizona.  A little sand helps containers drain, but you need some other growing medium to give the plant some nutrients and retain just enough moisture for the roots to seek and find. You can buy commercial cactus mixes, but most include peat moss. Tim believes his plants do better with less moss. He mixes his own medium of about half cactus potting soil, with some vermiculite and sandy soil from areas of our yard. This seems to support the plant while also providing drainage.

pink cactus flower
In this case, the cactus was found on family land in southeastern N.M. Tim kept some of the dirt he found it in for the growing medium. And why not? It was thriving in its natural location.

It can help to drill a drainage hole in any container you make or find, but it’s not always necessary with cacti and succulents, especially if you have a large or deep container and good potting mix. The real satisfaction is in coming up with a unique container or arrangement, matching the cactus to the container or the container to a plant you really like.

blooming cactus houseplant
A close-up of our spiny chair. Tim added a few decorative rocks to complement the planter’s color. We knew it had buds, but the blooms were more than we expected.

For more about cacti and succulents, check out our Pinterest board.

Getting Crafty With Plants

Since there’s not much we can do outside until after the first of the year, weather permitting, I’m playing with plants indoors. And it’s been fun, because we’ve made a few gifts from plants we’ve grown or by combining plants with other found objects. It’s way more fun than shopping and I won’t even get into how I feel about Christmas and commercialism this year.

air plant terrarium
Combining air plants with found garden objects, we made an inexpensive air plant terrarium as a gift.

I hope recipients enjoy the handmade gifts as much as I enjoy making them, because that’s what the holidays should be about. And maybe my attempts at being crafty with plant materials will inspire ideas in others.

Air Plant Arrangements

My daughter expressed the desire for some easy-care plants and showed me examples she really liked while we were catalog browsing over Thanksgiving. Never one to disappoint, I ordered a pack of three air plants from Juicy Kits and had fun making a few terrarium arrangements to give Rebecca and Dave for Christmas. I’m counting on her being way too busy to check my blog before I see her.

All three Juicy Kits air plants were easy to arrange.
All three Juicy Kits air plants were easy to arrange.

We already had a few mini-terrariums left over from another project; they seemed perfect for this one. We lined them with some decorative rock and then added objects we’ve saved or found out in our rock garden, including black rock, a shiny red stone, dried wood and a piece of shed deer antler Tim found in the yard. We added sphagnum moss, and I even colored some with green food coloring.

air plant terrarium in coffee pot
The coffee pot still has writing, but we enjoyed using objects from our place, including a piece of shed deer antler.

We placed one air plant in an old coffee pot. It didn’t look as good as I’d hoped, but I love how the top pops up, and it’s a bit of a private joke because our guests used to go through the tiny coffee pot on their first cup in the morning. If anyone knows how to get the writing off of the side, I would love advice! We tried combinations of a razor blade, Goo Gone and CLR. I ran out of patience, so I hope they get the joke. But we liked the arrangements enough that we decided they only need two and we’ll keep one (sorry, kid). We’ll enclose Juicy Kit’s care instructions in the gift bag.

Lavender Sachets

Since we decided to plant more lavender – the perfect xeric plant – I’ve been trying out ways to use the aromatic herb. This year, women in our family get a lavender sachet filled with dried buds and leaves from our garden. Drying and harvesting the lavender was the easy part of the project, and it was a great use of the stalks I wanted to leave on the plant longer so we could enjoy them in our garden. If you harvest lavender for wands or arrangements, you have to cut it earlier, before the buds fully flower.

Lavender bunches even look gorgeous when hanging to dry in an old shed.
Lavender bunches even look gorgeous when hanging to dry in an old shed.

For sachets or potpourris, you can simply run the flower stalks back and forth between your fingers, catching the buds in a large container. I did most of this outside on a sunny fall day. Then I stored the buds in an airtight container until I could fill the sachet bags.

Dried buds come off easily by simply rolling stalks between your fingers. Have a large container handy to catch them.
Dried buds come off easily by simply rolling stalks between your fingers. Have a large container handy to catch them.

I ordered the muslin bags and stamp set online. It was an easy project to complete, but the muslin didn’t take the fabric ink as well as I’d hoped. Next year, I’ll try a soft cotton. The lavender smells magnificent! I’m having to keep the sachets packaged in zipped bags until gifting them or the scent might mix with some manly beef jerky or white work socks in our gift pile. Can’t have that.

These aren't fancy, but they come from our garden and the heart. Oh, and they smell wonderful!
These aren’t fancy, but they come from our garden and the heart. Oh, and they smell wonderful!

Dogwood Branches

The redtwig dogwood (Cornus sericea) is my favorite winter plant. In fact, it’s arguably more colorful and striking in winter than in summer, at least here. After shedding all leaves, the shrub’s red and grayish-brown branches make an eye-catching statement, especially when the ground is covered in snow. Each spring, I have to shape the shrub and thin it by cutting out the dead, gray wood. I keep most of the trimmings.

The redtwig dogwood is a striking winter plant. And the branches make great arrangements.
The redtwig dogwood is a striking fall and winter plant. And the branches make great arrangements.

At Thanksgiving, I used a few dogwood branches in our table centerpiece, and I’ve added them to a few other projects. My favorite is the small dry arrangement of branches in our home’s entryway that I made our first summer here. So simple, with nothing but a clear vase, decorative rock and dogwood cuttings.

dogwood arrangement
A simple arrangement includes nothing but decorative rock and dogwood branches.
Close-up of dogwood branches.
Close-up of dogwood branches. The mirror reflects the colors (and my mother’s Hummel nativity scene).

My goal this year is to find a few more uses for dogwood branches. Watch out, friends and family!

Easy Thanksgiving Napkin Holder With Fresh Rosemary

I’ll use rosemary, one of my favorite low-water herbs, tomorrow when cooking our Thanksgiving turkey. I also wanted to incorporate it into our table arrangement. Earlier this month, I pinned some napkin holders made with rosemary sprigs. These were shaped into small circles and tied with floral wire, but I’m baking pies today and working a little bit, and they seemed beyond my skill (or patience) level.

Thanksgiving craft project
This was a quick project on a busy day and matched the centerpiece I made last week. The pies are baked, and now all I need is family gathered around the table.

Besides, I wanted to match the easy Thanksgiving centerpiece I made last week using lots of natural items from our yard, and I had pretty French-themed ribbon left over. So I sat down while the pecan pie was baking and made these in just a few minutes using rings we already had on hand, some napkins I bought recently, my leftover centerpiece ribbon and rosemary from our xeric garden.

First, I folded the napkin into a triangle, leaving just enough border on the underside to keep it from overlapping. If you have a large ring and a big table to set, you can fold it up less and make the napkin longer in the ring, adding proportionately longer ribbon and rosemary stalks.

folding napkin
I made a simple triangular fold and rolled the napkin loosely to fit in my ring. But there are plenty of folding techniques shown online for people with skills and patience.

Next, I put the napkin in the ring and then cut my ribbon to a length I liked, angling the cuts.

I had enough ribbon left for plenty of length to go with each napkin.
This ribbon tied the napkins in with my centerpiece and a table runner on our hutch.

Finally, I added the rosemary stalks, also cutting them to a length that works, and playing with the “arrangement” a little to keep it from looking like lined-up soldiers. So easy!

These were simple, but I like how they match the centerpiece and tablecloth and give this Thanksgiving a slightly different feel and color theme. And the rosemary...
These were simple, and I especially like how they give this Thanksgiving a slightly different feel and color theme. And the rosemary…

I’ll put the fresh, unwashed rosemary in an open plastic bag and store it in a door of my refrigerator to keep it fresh until ready to set the table tomorrow. I guess I should go cut some more for the turkey in case it’s dark when I start cooking. Happy Thanksgiving!


Make a Thanksgiving Centerpiece Using Garden Finds

I’m excited about Thanksgiving! Any holiday that celebrates harvesting food from a garden, and includes pie and stuffing, is a great holiday. But mostly, I can’t wait to celebrate with family. This year, I decided to make a simple centerpiece for our table from mostly found objects in our garden and yard.

homemade thanksgiving centerpiece
I love the natural look of the dogwood branches and other items from our yard on the handcrafted plate with etched herbs.

Since the objects would be dried and natural, I wanted to display them in something with the same effect, and have seen lots of photos online using natural boxes. I purchased a platter at a craft show in Albuquerque years ago that we often use for serving, but that works perfect for this year’s centerpiece. It’s a subtle, soft green with herbs etched around the sides. The main color comes from mini-pumpkins.

items used ot make centerpiece
The rose hips in the jar and dogwood branches are from plants in our yard. I love the serving platter, purchased at a local craft show.

I’ll admit that I didn’t grow these cute mini-pumpkins, but I really want to try them next year if we have room in our garden. Since they’re smaller, we might be able to get them to ripen in our shorter season; I really would like to try.

I bought the natural stone and brass-looking candle holders last year from CB2, and my daughter and I found the candles at Cost Plus a few weeks ago. We loved the way they look like tree bark. So I had a theme going here; now I could add some truly natural elements from our garden.

The candle looks like it's covered in tree bark.
The candle looks like it’s covered in tree bark.

I’d been hanging onto branches from our red twig dogwood in the shed for a couple of years now, and needed to use them in another project before Tim makes me throw them out. I love how they add texture and lines to the centerpiece. And as for the plant – it’s gorgeous in winter!

The red berries look like the cranberries or holly berries I’ve seen used in several arrangements online. We can’t grow either of those here, but Tim and I worked hard harvesting rose hips a year ago, and I still had some left after making tea and jelly. The dried hips give a warm red color without looking too much like Christmas – please, I’m not ready for that yet!

Dried rose hips have such a rich, warm color. I tied gold ribbon around the candle holder for a touch of bling.
Dried rose hips have such a rich, warm color. I tied gold ribbon around the candle holder for a touch of bling.

The arrangement needed some leaves, but ours all fell fast and hard, and we don’t have giant maples around here. But our creeping mahonia, or Oregon grape holly, has shiny, colorful leaves all year long. I cut a few bunches to add some life to the arrangement.

Credit my clever husband for the idea of adding leaves from our gorgeous creeping mahonia.
Credit my clever husband for the idea of adding leaves from our gorgeous creeping mahonia.

Finally, I added some ribbon to make it pretty. A little gold dresses up the candle holder and ties it into the gold tablecloth we’ll use for dinner this year. But instead of a big, in-your-face Thanksgiving ribbon, I went with a subtle French theme with a hint of gold, red and the softer green of the plate. It also ties in the new table runner I bought recently. I just wove the ribbon loosely in, around and under the other items.

I just wove the ribbon loosely around the natural objects.
I just wove the ribbon loosely around the natural objects.
I already had some pumpkins on our new runner, which covers the hutch next to the dining table.
I already had some pumpkins on our new runner, which covers the hutch next to the dining table.

It might not be the most gorgeous arrangement out there, but it was really satisfying and inexpensive. The only items I bought just for the centerpiece were the two rolls of ribbon. We had or grew everything else! And that makes it something to be thankful for…

Next up...napkin holders with a natural element. We'll see if it works next week!
Next up…napkin holders with a natural element. We’ll see if it works next week!